Losing the Sparks....
When everything seems right, we are certainly not prepared for this feelings and thoughts.
Even when its really happened, we are struggling to find what went wrong and what the hell is SPARKS anyway?
When everything seems right, we are certainly not prepared for this feelings and thoughts.
Even when its really happened, we are struggling to find what went wrong and what the hell is SPARKS anyway?
Maybe I could categorized it under "Out Of Love" phase..
The phase or stage when you are just sort of going through the motions of day-to-day living,
but nothing that is really wrong (at least nothing you can put your finger on).
As a matter of fact, most of the rships experience an ebb and flow that is normal and to be expected.
Most of us buy into the idea that we are supposed to fall in love and "live happily ever after"..
Well, in reality there are times when you may not know why on earth you are with him/her, like Billy Joel(whoever he is anyway) said , "you might love somebody, but you wont want them everyday"
So...these are a few steps or advices I would like to take :
1. Try not to make any major decisions during this stage
2. Remember that this is a normal phase and only a phase of many more in a rship
3. Dont have to act on every feelings that come up
4. Its OK and its good for better rship to talk about the feelings involved
5. While it's certainly not always easy, hanging in there can often be very much worth it!
OK Dr Love , it is indeed good advices and I'll try my best to make the most out of it.
Satu lg nk tambah as a muslim...
Sabar separuh dari iman..bykkan bersabar kerana sabar itu hasilnya manis. Oleh itu, ku juga mengharapkan kemanisan atas kesabaranku. insyaAllah
The phase or stage when you are just sort of going through the motions of day-to-day living,
but nothing that is really wrong (at least nothing you can put your finger on).
As a matter of fact, most of the rships experience an ebb and flow that is normal and to be expected.
Most of us buy into the idea that we are supposed to fall in love and "live happily ever after"..
Well, in reality there are times when you may not know why on earth you are with him/her, like Billy Joel(whoever he is anyway) said , "you might love somebody, but you wont want them everyday"
So...these are a few steps or advices I would like to take :
1. Try not to make any major decisions during this stage
2. Remember that this is a normal phase and only a phase of many more in a rship
3. Dont have to act on every feelings that come up
4. Its OK and its good for better rship to talk about the feelings involved
5. While it's certainly not always easy, hanging in there can often be very much worth it!
OK Dr Love , it is indeed good advices and I'll try my best to make the most out of it.
Satu lg nk tambah as a muslim...
Sabar separuh dari iman..bykkan bersabar kerana sabar itu hasilnya manis. Oleh itu, ku juga mengharapkan kemanisan atas kesabaranku. insyaAllah
Oh oh oh! Ape ini?? hahaha. Hang in there.
ReplyDeletehahaha ateh.. a phase in a relationship or PMS or confusion or anything related to it...hehehe..
ReplyDeletenway, how are you? lame tk dgr cite daaa